A Halloween Table Setting

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! Here’s to a spooky, but fun day of frights to you and yours! I’ll keep this one short and sweet because I know you’ll soon be finishing last minute preparations for your Halloween party, getting together the final details of costumes, and making “WEFORGOTTHECANDY?!” 11th hour grocery store runs. Before the madness begins, let me treat you to some ghoulish table-setting eye candy, courtesy of the Thomas house.Halloween Table

A little bit of creepy crawly, a little bit of “blood” and candlesticks. One thing you should know about this- it’s super easy and you can whip it up using only things you find around the house. Need some last minute decor for that party tonight? This is all you, baby! Let’s break it down:

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I started with a plain white table cloth and added my “spiderweb”, which I made using a black garbage bag and these instructions.Halloween Table Setting 002After that, I broke out the white dishware, stuck a woven placemat underneath, and called it a place setting.Halloween Table Setting 028Oh, and for some scare factor, I just crisscrossed the silverware to make an X (something about that seemed scary to me… go with me on this) and topped it with a name tag made with scrapbook paper and a red sharpie.Halloween Table Setting 006

Want to add another easy “squeamish” detail? Serve some sort of red beverage to your guests- could be red wine, punch, whatever! I vant to suuuuck your blooooood. 🙂Halloween Table Setting 008 Next came the centerpiece. All this took was a large gold plate, topped with three silver candle sticks and some basket filler. These also made an appearance in this spooky post about pumpkins.Halloween Table Setting 022To fill out the rest of the table, I added a few small white pumpkins, a silver candle holder, a few votives, a glass science-y looking thing, and a gold bird.Halloween Table Setting 009Light the candles and you’re all set to go!Halloween Table Setting 017Halloween Table Setting 021

Have a happy, happy Halloween!
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It’s a Pumpkin Progression…

In the spirit of Halloween, I figured I’d show you some of the spooky fun that’s happening around our house as of late.No-Carve PumpkinWe’re keeping things pretty low-key this year (as in, we didn’t even carve a pumpkin) and truth be told, it’s kind of nice! HOWEVER, we’re not totally ignoring the season’s festivities and we’ve got some pumpkins that have been through the, er, ringer. You may remember, we got our pumpkins about a month agoHouse 052…but you haven’t seen the likes of them since. Well, have no fear friends! Tons of pumpkin-y updates for you today! This is actually a tale of two pumpkins that have made their way through makeover after makeover. When we bought them, they were speckled green and orange and I thought they were cool and unique so I begged Mitch to let me add them to the cart. See the one, to my left?

House 053So they came home with us and sat on our mantel like that for awhile. And then I got bored and wondered what they would look like spray painted silver. Chic, maybe?Fall 034And that’s how they sat for some time, with a few nick nacks to keep them company on the mantel. And THEN I got bored again and wondered if I could Halloween them up somehow… I didn’t really feel like carving them and was also thinking that if we left them in tact, they could be re-purposed down the road again for more of a Thanksgiving look. So, to add some Halloween fun, all I did was grab a Sharpie and start doodling!Fall 037

First I added a Halloween-ish word. Spooky and Creepy were my words of choice.Fall 036

From there, I literally doodled on the pumpkins. Swirly shapes around the Spookyno-carve pumpkins 009

And a spiderweb around Creepy.no-carve pumpkins 010

Sidenote: Should I be embarrassed that I had to Google what a spiderweb looked like in order to draw it? It’s super easy, if you’re wondering. Start with a dot in the middle, add some straight lines (think rays of sunshine) coming out from it, and connect those lines with little swoops. Truth be told, spiderwebs are REALLY fun to draw and kind of addicting… made me want to “web” anything and everything within reach that I could draw on. #mystrangeaddictionno-carve pumpkins 007

So these pumpkins still live on our mantel and now they’re flanked by a few small white pumpkins and some silver candlesticks to add a bit of Halloween flair. I would say that this project took me 30 minutes MAX once all was said and done. Super easy, super affordable, super quick. How’s that for decorations? Annnnnd I’m hoping to be able to reuse the pumpkins for another look come November (which is like, tomorrow. yikes.). Updates on what that looks like when it happens! 🙂no-carve pumpkins 006Stay tuned for more Halloween fun later this week… a fright fest of a table setting is coming your way!

Halloween is HERE?!

How the heck did that happen? I feel like we just picked out our pumpkins and we did that a month ago! Holy cow, time is flying by and sometimes I just feel like I’m constantly treading water to keep up… anyone with me? I’ve actually been thinking about this a lot lately- why is it that I love this season so much, but have this nagging feeling that I’m continuously behind in enjoying it? Every other month or so, I write an article for our church newsletter and this month, I started wondering… am I the only one who feels this way? I thought I’d share the article with you here- who knows, maybe we can make a pact together to take some of the stress out of “the most wonderful time of the year”. So with that, here we go:

I’ll Ride the Bench This Year

I’ll admit it here first, folks. This year, I’m setting myself FREE.  From what, you ask? Well, here it is:

I am setting myself free from all of the expectations and pressures that come with the holiday craze.

 You probably know by now that this is my absolute favorite time of the year. There is something about cool days and colder nights, sweatshirts at football games, green, yellow, and red leaves all on the same tree, and (don’t even get me started on) campfires that just sings to a deep part of my soul. Autumn, you have my heart!House 029

As I think about fall, part of what gets me so excited during this season is the anticipation of what is to come. I mean, let’s be blunt, friends. We’ve got an ALL-STAR line up of holidays coming our way. We start out with Halloween, a childhood favorite and a great way to kick off the season. Who doesn’t like playing dress-up and eating candy? Up next is Thanksgiving- a crowd pleaser through and through. Football, family, parades, and pumpkin pie… my kind of paradise!  Meanwhile, the anticipation continues to build and grow for (sing it with me now) “the most WONDERFUL time of the year”! Christmas carols, cookies, wish lists, nativity scenes, the smell of pine, snow… what could be better?

First Christmas Tree!

Ahh, just thinking about all the festivities gets me so excited! And, dare I say… anxious? Because along with the thrill comes the pressure, the expectations, and the stress. I have talked to many people who say that the most relaxing part of the holidays is when they are over.Calm Snow I can sympathize with this because already I feel myself becoming flustered with the minutia of the hustle and bustle. Here’s how the conversation in my head goes if I allow myself to dwell on what is “required” of me to make this season “the best year ever”:

(This should be read at a fast pace, while gulping large breaths of air.)

Okaaaaay, good morning world! It is… October 16th. I think I’ll have a quick bowl of cereal before—wait, OCTOBER 16TH?! How can that be? It was just September 1st and now we’re halfway through October? Oh my goodness, there is so much to do! I haven’t even started putting out the Halloween decorations. What will the neighbors think when they come Trick-or-Treating and we don’t even have any PUMPKINS? And we really should carve one- that would be a fun, festive thing to do (and let’s go all out this year), but WHEN will we do that? There is not a free weekend in sight for the next two months… And by that time, it’ll be November… Oh my gosh, November—THANKSGIVING!!! We better figure out who is hosting and when we’ll see the in-laws because that has bearing on where we’ll be for… oh no, Christmas. CHRISTMAS?! It’s practically NEXT WEEK and I haven’t even started shopping for gifts! We’d better get on that to allow for shipping time… oh my word, if people are going to be coming to our house I better bake double batches of cookies (WHEN will I get that done??) and I guess we’d better have the tree up (real or fake this year?)—holy cow, I FORGOT TO GET NEW CHRISTMAS LIGHTS WHEN THEY WERE ON CLEARANCE LAST YEAR! Now, we’ll have to pay full price…

 And so on, and so forth.

My question for us to think about (or perhaps a challenge for us to consider) is this:

Does it have to be that way?

 Why do we have this notion that we have to submit to the expectation of being busy throughout the season? I believe that this is due largely to the fact that there is a lot to do during the holidays and we feel that we have to do it all… and do it all flawlessly. And who can blame us? We have set ourselves up and live in a culture that screams expectations (Ever been on Pinterest?).That shouts hustle and bustle from the rooftops (There are Christmas trees in Lowes, people. It’s October.).christmas trees at Lowes My question is this: Can we challenge all the chaos of the season with the peace of Christ? Can we vow to ourselves and to our families that we will take measures to minimize the stress of the holidays so that we can maximize the joy?  Think about these song lyrics:

Joy to the world, the Lord is come! Let earth receive her king;

Let every heart prepare Him room, And heaven and nature sing.

 The overarching sentiment of the season is (or should be)… pure joy. And how often does that get lost in the ways in which we are trying to execute the perfect party? Let every heart prepare Him room. It doesn’t say “let every house prepare its rooms”. The song speaks of the preparation of our hearts. Something deep inside reminds me that I don’t need to have the perfect family and in-law schedule lined up, laminated, and hanging on the fridge, ready for action for my heart to be prepared to celebrate our Savior. And heaven and nature sing. Are the Christmas carols turned up too loud on the radio for us to hear the heavens proclaiming the glory of God? Are the commercials turned up even louder, blocking the symphony of nature as it sings to the Almighty King?Christmas Stress

Which celebration do we want to be a part of? Well, I know which camp I’m in. I want the party in which all I have to do is show up. Show up and REJOICE!

Now you’re thinking: Well, yes, I want that too, but let’s speak realistically here. Just saying that doesn’t make the stress of the season go away. And you are right. How do we put this notion into action? I like practical and tangible steps and suggestions, so here is a list of a five habits we could try to adopt to lighten the pressures of the holidays:

  1. Start early. Ask for your loved ones’ wish lists now and go ahead and start the shopping (and wrapping!) even before November ends.
  2. Do we really need ALL of the decorations out this year? Put out the ones that make you happy and leave the rest in storage.
  3. Communicate your goals to friends and family. Encourage them to join you on the quest to minimize the stress and maximize the joy. Tell them how they can help you with this and ask them how you can help do the same.
  4. Take a walk. Outside, once a week. It can be difficult to hear heaven and nature singing if we never expose ourselves to God’s creation. Give yourself that space and time to “pause” the chaos and enjoy some peace and quiet.
  5. Make a list. Not a to-do list, but a list of things you’d like to look out for this fall and winter. This one is especially important because it will help us combat the “busy” and keep our eyes open for the “special”. (Need some ideas? This year, I hope to see: a random act of kindness, a tree full of fall leaves, a cup of hot chocolate, a live nativity scene, a cloud with a neat shape…)new house 052

Anyone with me this year? Let’s ride the bench on Team Holiday Craze and let ourselves embrace the joy of the season. I wonder what this year would look like if we adopted the thinking of this Scripture:

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.

Philippians 4:4-9

My prayer for you this season is that you will be full of joy as we prepare our hearts for the birth of our King.IMG_1065

Happy Fall, everybody!